Intimate and no BS workshop on How to Find and Choose the Right Partner. Interested?
Hey ,(a quick note: If you or someone you care about is single, be sure you read all the way to the end of this. I have something special for you.) Also - one last note. I decided to record one of the many deep conversations that I have with my dear friend about love, relationships, and life. Our last convo was about picking better people to love, and we also got into how she went from a super toxic situation to a loving marriage, what we both LOVE in a partner, and more. If you're interested in listening, click here. You'll either be intrigued or bored to tears. Will you do me a favor? If you like it and want more, will you email me back and let me know? Thanks:).Ok, here we go....One year at camp I decided I wanted to be a life guard. Although I was too young to be officially certified, the generous camp director had a local life guard come to the premises on a Sunday and train me and 4 other campers on how to save someone from drowning. For most of the day we learned how to hold our breaths and swim as fast as we could at the bottom of the deep end of the pool.
Finally we would learn how to save someone from drowning. We role played: our teacher would be the one drowning, and I would be the first one to try and save him. The scene began and I sat upright and attentively in the life guard chair. Eager to excel, I watched him and the pool carefully. Then he started to “drown”.
I stood up, ran to the edge of the pool and dove in for the rescue. I swam as fast as I could towards him with no plan other than to grab his arms and pull him to shore. As you can imagine, he was thrashing, wailing, flailing and screaming. Utter chaos. As I tried to grab him, he wrapped his arms around my neck and pulled me under. The end.
What I learned after was: Always keep a safe distance between you and someone who's drowning.Grab a buoy before entering the water and get them to grab it, not you.Keeping them at a distance, bring them to safety.
Me: “But what if they don’t listen?! What if they don’t grab it!?”Him: “Then they will drown.”Me: “But…they’ll DIE!!”Him: “Yes. But if the choice is, that person drowning or you both drowning, then its better that they drown.”
In life, if someone is sinking and wrapping their arms around your neck and pulling you down, you are not obligated to drown with them.
If you help them, make sure you keep a safe distance.
Just like some won’t grab the buoy, you’ll know many who won’t take your help. Stop trying to help someone who can’t be saved. Especially by you.Here's to staying afloat.All my love,Jillian*************SINGLES (OR NOT SURE IF YOU SHOULD BE) ALERT:I want to help.Do any of these describe you?
Are you feeling discouraged and a bit (or a lot) hopeless about the dating scene?
Have you felt so connected to someone and they pull away unexpectedly?
Ever been ghosted?
Confused as to whether you should stay or go in your relationship?
Give too many chances?
Wish you could have a relationship that lasts more than 3 - 6 months?
Wish to be understood, accepted, and seen?
Do you want your life long partner?
If you answered YES to any of these questions, then I want to help you badly - IF you want to be helped, that is. ;)Here's a major thing I've learned after years of working closely with hundreds of people struggling in their love life:If you want to know HOW to find the legitimately right person for you, then you have to know WHY you’ve been attracting and picking the wrong ones, or the “not quite” ones.
So here's what I can offer this summer:
On Wednesday July 31st from 6pm-930pm I am leading an in- person, intimate, no BS workshop on How to Find and Choose the Right Partner For YOU - for the long-term.Location: Williamsburg, Brooklyn (not the yoga studio) **(if you're not in NY you can still join through video conference!!)*SO....Before I send this out to others, I wanted to offer you, as a subscriber, an opportunity for a discount.Space is very limited and it will sell out.So, I’m giving $50 OFF for the first 5 people who register. All you have to do is email me back here and write: I'M IN. Then I'll send you a link on how to pay. Once paid, Voila. Here's what this workshop is all about:
on July 31st, I want you to bring all your questions, worries, frustrations, and pen and paper. We are going to dive deep into YOU.
Here’s what we'll cover:
- How to strategically clarify what it is that you REALLY NEED.
- What shifts you need to make to your mindset about about love, the opposite sex (if that is who you date) and dating.
- what core beliefs may be holding you way back.
- Understand why a certain “type” of person keeps coming into your life - and how to break the pattern.
- how to assert yourself and your needs
- how to raise your standards for yourself and for another person.
But I'm not going to just lecture you.
There will extensive Q & A where I will give you on the spot coaching and hardcore advice that if followed, will give you results.
There is more.You see, I have been working for 5 years on developing serious online content, and because I can't stop myself from helping.. (the life guard in me)You will also receive 1 week before the workshop:
An audio training, downloadable to your device, of my 5 Principles For Finding The Right Partner.
PDF excerpts (and video) from my 120 page workbook I designed to help women recovering from heartbreak: you will receive: How to Clarify Your Values and Value hierarchy, How to Define exactly what you need and will NOT tolerate in a partner (The is way more in depth than you can imagine) AND, How to Identify and work with your Reactive Patterns in a Relationship. (this completely changed the game for me and every single client I have ever worked with.)
My long (about 1.5 hours) masterclass on The 10 Steps to Increase Your Self Worth
Here's the truth. I'm allergic to being sales-sy. But I have to be straight up real about what this would normally cost if you were to purchase it all: $1300. But: the workshop is $299 because I friggin love what I do and I want it to be ACCESSIBLE.
Again, because space is extremely limited and I am committed to a supportive environment, this will sell out - and quick. I’m offering $50 OFF for the first 5 people who respond with I'M IN and pay upon receipt of my email back to you.LET'S DO THIS.
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